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Tuesday, February 13, 2007

A Bifurcated Blog

It's been....well...A LONG TIME since my last post. I've most likely lost the majority of my readers, but hopefully they will find their way back. This is my first blog since arriving in B.C. and it comes as a result of two rather impacting moments in my life this week, hence the title of the post. One blog divided by two unrelated events, other than they both occurred this past week. For the sake of alliteration we'll call these two events "The Epiphany" and "The Empathy".

The Epiphany
I was at a party this weekend, which has become the tradition since arriving in B.C. annd some where between the lounging in hot tub and the "smores" around the fire I had this epiphanal moment. I realized the true reason I am loving my time in B.C. so much. It is the people I have met and who have adopted me as their own. Sure I'm still an East Coast Boy, and the plush toush of jokes, but I am considered one of them. A community of 20 somethings did not see me as the new guy who had to earn his stripes into their "clique". They simply accepted my UNIQUE personality and made every effort to include, rather than exclude, me.
As beautiful as the B.C. landscape is and as awesome of a program the MTS cap is, I think the luster of B.C. would have been dulled by loneliness if it were not for these friends who welcomed me into their lives.

The Empathy
This past Sunday Heather, another ACTS student from NB, and myself went into Vancouver to attend Jazz Vespers. In order to do so though we had to drive down East Hastings, which is the part of the city you're suppose to avoid. In fact when I was moving out to B.C. a former TWU student told me, "When you get there find out where East Hastings is, and NEVER Go there." Driving to Jazz Vespers we got a since of the reason for this advice. As we progressed along East Hastings the buildings became increasing run down and the amount of people living on the street became more plentiful.
After Jazz Vespers we made our trip down East Hastings, with dusk giving way to night. Seeing the people lining the street at the various shelters hoping to find a place to sleep for the night my heart grew more and more unsettled. At the point in which one might cry, not me though, I turned to Heather and said , "The only reason for me being on this side of car door is the family I was born into and a few life choices". The sobriety of the moment broke my heart as I realized I did not deserve the fortune of my family, nor did those lining the street deserve the misfortune of the streets.

8 comments:

matthew said...

good thoughts Dave
And welcome back to blogdom
I look forward to more :)
Glad you are enjoying BC
I am thinking of visiting Vancouver in 08

Dancin' said...

I should still be around, so we'll have to connect if you do.

Kirk said...

Good thoughts Dave. Sounds like a stirring of the Spirit in you. Don't ignore it.

Flip Flops Anonymous said...

Awww yay!! I'm glad that you feel so included...you ARE 'one of the gang' :)

Nicole said...

Hey Buddy! Glad you updated. I, however, have not in months. Miss ya!

Dancin' said...
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Dancin' said...

Kirk & Tammy: Thanks for the encouragement. I think God is already using me though;) I hope it hasn't taken 26 years for me to be 'usable". Just joking I know what you mean, though. I'm always curious the direction proddings of the spirit by The Spirit will take.

Maia: There's always the chance the group's inclusion stems from a fear of what'd happen to them if they didn't;)

Em Bass said...

Oh look, he's finally back.